marriage dilemma =)

life isnt just about falling in love & live happily ever after..  our ultimate mission is to be the Khalifa of Allah in this momentary  world..  true, to get married is like building a mosque but the recipes of a blissful marriage were commitment, knowledges and a slip of fate/good luck in term of the right candidate.. when you dont have the right ingredients,  the blend of the mixture wont yield expected result.. the best thing to do  when this situation arise is to strive to be a better person and leave everything to Allah..  like a verse on al baqarah said : maybe you hate a thing, but it's good for you and vice versa..God know when is the right time so why must human, his slave and servant  questioned his  command? often, people around said bad things to those that doesnt even had a boyfriend, but what a boyfriend can do? bring on to date & let the satan clap their hand over their victory of bringing down muslim? and looking for a spouse isnt as simple as  ABC.. llike looking for clothes, we need to choose the one that suit us perfectly.. even if we love the colour&its design, if it was too loose or too  fit,  clearly it wasnt suitable for us or we can wear  it with heavy heart and discomfort! why opt for a discomfort when you can wait and look for another one.. doesnt mean that we are choosy, it's just that we want a solid marriage that share the same vision of doing everything just because of Allah!