wedding all around

3 invitations in a day  but i managed to attend just 2 of them plus  being a loyal partner attended  the friend of  friend wedding.. never in my life  attend too much wedding in a day at 3 different place.. quite an interesting day.. honestly, i went to 'kenduri kahwin' to honour those that invited me, so i'm not making  a fuss whether it' s a grand wedding or not.. though, i  must admitted that  i love cute decorations either  pelamin, bilik tidur , meja makan beradap, khemah and doorgifts..   if someone ask me, i'd say better  to hold a feast within means & making a loan for a wedding is just too bothersome.. of course most people dream  of a grand wedding but living within our means save us from unnecessary debt later on.. debt is unavoidable when buying a land or purchasing a car or house(unless you are damn  rich till buying properties with cash is not a big deal.